he never listen to me when i tell him to lift light weight he tell me no it will stunt my growth how to deal with this problem
...yeah. You do not want to make him lift at 10. I know that you can start early, but that's stretching it a bit. It won't stunt his growth, but his body is still going through too much development. Wait until he's 14-15.
To get him back in shape, just make him do something fun that kids like. I dunno, play tag/basketball/soccer/etc. I forgot what I did at 10

You don't want any structured exercises or routines, that's gonna make him bored and not want to exercise ever again. Also, as people already said 1000 times, make sure he doesn't get his hands on junk food and your parents are managing his nutrition properly.