Scooby,
Like many here I prefer your training advice the most, but since you asked -
I recently enjoyed reading a book on women's fitness that covered many of the topics I am interested in: Knack Weight Training for Women: Step-by-Step Exercises for Weight Loss By Leah Garcia, 2009.
In addition to a variety of topics, the exercises are well illustrated and easy to follow. If I were to criticize the book I would say that including more information on nutrition would have made it more 'complete'.
a Preview of the book is available online through Google books:
http://books.google.ca/books?id=5un2SO9VYaMC&printsec=frontcover#v=onepage&q&f=falseCheers,
- Acorn